Thanks to you listees who have expressed your condolences and assurance of a brighter future. That is so nice of you all and I truly appreciate it! But if I may ask: Is is only ME or do you all like to 'drown' yourself in depressing music.....you know, to intensify the pain so to speak! I do I guess. It's SO hard to listen to all those albums sometimes because I SO relate it to my ex......but, I guess as part of my healing, I have been buying up all their albums....(he owned them all so I have to re-purchase them) I don't think that neglecting the music you love because of a past relationship is healthy in some ways. But.........