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Re: revelations and open eyes (no OtR)
Alright, alright, the story goes as follows, context and all.
He and I were on the phone, and the conversation started out with us
talking about having latent feelings for each other. It was a pretty casual
conversation, since the two of us are close friends and not much makes
things weird.
I brought up the fact that, as of late, I have been trying to make a
list of standards by which to measure boys that I can stick to. (This is
the result of many a terrible relationship brought on by my lack of
standards and/or inability to stick with the ones that I have had.) As an
example, I said that I only wanted to date boys who had chosen me uniquely
and only from all the rest. I then went on to say that I didn't see myself
dating anyone in the near furture because my list was still incomplete.
He then told me that, quite honestly, he was going to date someone
when the opportunity arose because he just wanted to be dating someone, and
it didn't have to be me.
In reply, I made some refrence to him not measuring up to the one
example of a standard that I had, and then things got rather awkward for a
bit. Not for long though, because then we talked of other things.
In my mind there is the analogy of a lottery ticket. I see his name
emblazoned on silvery scratch off stuff, and as I scratch it off, there is
nothing underneath. I don't feel hurt by it, and am rather glad for his
honesty.
liesel wrote:
darling, where is your stamina? if you are
considering the monastery before you get out of
college there is no way your going to win the dating
game out of school.
Oh dear. I wonder if I should have ever written that in conjunction
with the other. I am not running out to sign up for the monastic draft.
It's merely an idea that I think deserves as much consideration as any
other. I know that I COULD do it, but that doesn't mean I should. In
retrospect, I realize that those two ideas in the same email make me sound
rather reactionary.
I loved your wonderful poem, and I am happy that you shared it with me.
If nothing else, you and I can head up different branches of
rent-a-husband.
off to buy my copy of the tribute CD,
Samantha
Oh the night came undone like a party dress
And fell at her feet in a beautiful mess
The smoke and the whiskey came home in her curls
And they crept through the dreams of the barroom girls
--Gillian Welch
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