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> > >>This is so gay!  If these cats would get over being so
> > >>ding-danged concerned about their image maybe that
> > >>could change that "negative connotation."
> >
> > >>Kelvin
> >
>
> Watch your mouth, Kelvin.
>
> Jan
>
> Disclaimer: I wrote this e-mail several ways, trying to find out the best
way
> to tell Kelvin I thought that using "gay" as an insult or derogatory term
> especially in this manner was childish, sad, immature, ignorant, rude, and
> wrong.  Wasn't sure what the best way was to do that, so I opted for the
> simple "watch your mouth."  Is there a better way I could have said it?
 : )



I was having the same debate with myself. How do I tactfully tell someone
they haven't really been tactful?

Jan, you did good.

~Lara

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And if the night runs over
And if the day won't last
And if your way should falter
Along the stony pass
It's just a moment - this time will pass.       ~U2
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