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Re: fucking
Yeah.
David had his concubines.
How come we don't get concubines?
I want some concubines.
kT
>From: Jennifer K Cochran <j-cochran at juno_com>
>Reply-To: Jennifer K Cochran <j-cochran at juno_com>
>To: over-the-rhine at actwin_com
>Subject: fucking
>Date: Wed, 20 Dec 2000 11:52:55 -0500
>
>
>Before I start in on this topic, I want to preface myself...
>
>I have only been skimming the posts lately, I haven't had time to read
>all of them.
>
>I don't think that there is anything wrong with "fucking," I don't think
>that it defames the sacredness of the body (and I do think that the body
>is sacred). The problem starts to come in when fucking, instead of
>making love is all that happens.
>
>Making love is the deepest, most moving experience sex-wise, that two
>people can share. But occasionally, rough and tumble physical
>gratification is what those two people most desire at the moment. And
>that is okay. *between two people who honestly care about eachother*
>
>Sex can be very theraputic, and I include fucking in that. True, you are
>dealing with a different set of emotions then when making love to
>someone, but there is nothing wrong with that. Sometimes it takes alot
>to be honest enough to fuck, or be fucked. I think that you almost make
>yourself more vulnerable in that situation, because the emotions that you
>are dealing with are more dangerous.
>
>The problem comes in when you allow a person to become "a fuck." That
>implies a lack of respect for the person that you are with, and distances
>you from them. But fucking between two people who deeply care about
>eachother, I have found to be a very good experience.
>
>An endnote: I try very hard not to judge people's sex-life choices. I
>live in a glass house. I think responsible exploration of ones sexuality
>is a very healthy thing to do, whether thats through fucking someone you
>love, or making love to them, or gay/lesbian sex, or involvement in S&M.
>All of that can be good and healthy things. All of that can be
>incredibly destructive too. It just depends on attitude.
>
>Perhaps you may think that this makes me "less" of a christian. It has
>been something that I have struggled with long and hard. But in the end,
>I think it makes me a better more well-rounded person, and I don't think
>that anyone should ever hold any regrets over those sorts of choices. It
>makes us who we are.
>
>
>jen
>
>
>
>Fear of the moodiness of love and the moods of the caperings of rage.
>Gargle of the molten metal of her hair shrieking with pain all her joy at
>being possesed... The reflection of her grimaces painted on the mirror
>which is open to all the winds aromatizes the hardness of her blood on
>the coldness of the flight of doves which receives it.
>-Pablo Picasso "Desire Caught by the Tail"
>
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