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Re: the list is dancing



On Thu, 13 Apr 2000 03:29:35 GMT "helena thibaut"
<madamethibaut at hotmail_com> writes:

>but I 
>suppose it ultimately has to do with not knowing how to do better. And 
>we 
>can only hope our own lives might show others a different way, even as 
>we 
>have been shown.

I'm afraid that I find this bit here particularly insulting.  What gives
you the right to define what is or is not garbage to the rest of us?  And
who are you to "show us the way?"  As much as some of us (including me)
enjoy the fantasy of the treehouse, darlin', this ain't it.  I don't know
if I would stay here if it was.  I enjoy the fact that people here are
comfortable enough with eachother  to occasionally "dump their garbage". 
   


>Kyle, you strike me as a child in desperate need of attention, and 
>perhaps 
>this will grow into something of a strength for you. Children starved 
>for 
>attention do have a tendency to eventually get it. Call me crazy

This statement makes me so angry, I can't even begin to discribe.  Kyle
is a sweet and funny man,  I would never think of calling him a child. 
If you don't like his posts, skip over them.



> Granted, I didn't get the feeling that there was a lot of deep 
>thinking going on in your posts, but I think you will do better in 
>time

Actually, if you look at what he's saying, there is alot of deep thinking
going on in Kyle's posts.  He works by playing the antagonist.  Its a way
for one to reanalyze their arguements on a particular topic.  If you have
to really defend your POV then you have to constantly reevaluate your
arguements to determine their relevancy.  Kyle's posts make people do
that, and I think that that is good.


jen

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