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Here’s an CAT SCAN image of our cat Merrick’s head…

You can see his ears and the ear canals (black) going into his skull, and the bony round canal where the important ear stuff sits inside the eardrum. One canal is black and full of air (normal) and the other canal is grey and full of something not normal. We can’t tell if it’s just fluid (a nasty inner ear infection) or if it’s actually a mass (probably benign, but still needs to go) but the radiologist who reads the films will tell us next week. Either way he’ll be OK, but this picture was too cool not to share.

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> The dinner story was interesting. It sounds like it went well for
> you. I could feel the pit in my own stomach while you were awaiting
> her arrival. Thinking about someone who broke up with me, and hurt
> me very badly, I think I can relate. Kudos to you, I don’t think I
> could have done it. She sounds like she may be regretting some
> things. You should feel good about the fact that you have moved on
> AND UP in your life. Maybe she hasn’t been able to do that in her
> three years alone. I have admired your ability to continue your life
> despite the loss. Unfortunately, that is the one thing I failed to
> do, and continue to struggle with each day. Certainly my
> circumstances are different, but I have let my feelings of loss,
> anger, and regret consume my life. You are a good role model for me!
>
A role model, eh? Never thought I’d be a role model, but I’m flattered!

Anne — the good news is this — it’s NEVER TOO LATE to begin/continue the healing process. Even though it may have been a while ago that you had a loss, and just as those feelings are within you every day, they CAN BE HEALED.

Now, that being said, how to proceed? Before you read on, please understand that I take a *behaviorist* methodology when approaching healing of the heart. This may not work for you (in fact, it’s been a considerable failure for my housemate. His path is completely different).

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THE STOREFRONT
Why go somewhere else to get ripped off when you can come here?

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Here are some quotes from High Fidelity:

• …and my friends don’t seem to be friends at all but people whose phone numbers I haven’t lost. 
• …I have a terrible, chilling, bone-shaking experience: the most pathetic man in the world gives me a smile of recognition. The Most Pathetic Man In The World has huge horn-rimmed spectacles and buckteeth; he’s wearing a dirty fawn anorak and brown cord trousers which have been rubbed smooth at the knee; he, too, is being taken to see Howard’s End by his parents, despite the fact that he’s in his late twenties. And he gives me this terrible little smile because he has spotted a kindred spirit.

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Paul S. Golightly’s debut novel, what his name looks like on the cover of a book:

Compliments of Progressive Graphics, a division of BowTie Productions.

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You may want a couple of buddies to go in buying the material with you, or make 3 at the same time, as the pipe comes in 10 foot chunks (enough for three). I bought all material at my local “Home Depot” for about $15.

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